it hurts

[Kasuke]

Ashes that was completely most definetly not called for and unneeded/unwanted.

It;s kind of those things like..."Why the hell would you say that?"

Anyways 'nuff said. I don't want to get in trouble >.<.

Yo Dragon, don't listen to Ashes. You're in love with the guy/girl after the first date. Has  no one ever heard of Love at First sight? It's that feeling that you get. Like....you've never got it like any before! And you think they're everything and all <333 Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't but there is such a thing as Love at First Sight!

Now you just got to know him/her to see if they're right! :D

[Ironklaw]

I personally don't believe in love at first sight. I can find myself infatuated and physically attracted, but love is something that needs to legitimately be built over time through mutual trust, affection and knowledge of yourself and the other person in the relationship.

There's being 'in love' and then there's 'loving' someone. They're two different things. Being in love is that sudden feeling of attraction and dependency you build when you first meet the person. It's physical and emotional infatuation. Loving someone however, is when you've been with them long enough that you can't picture the rest of your life without them figuring into it.

[Darky]

dragon son i went to school with ya young man your still young love at first tight dose happen but thay might just not be the one you spend your life with there is always hard times and good times. but looks at it this way youll always have me as a firend if you need some one to talk to ok?

[Kale the dragon]

good to know.  what's with this ashes dude?  i cant remember him ever making a positive post. just wondering

[Kasuke]

Just don't bother with Ashes. It's fine. He's already banned from the forums after always commenting negatively in people's threads >.>.

So like, whatever he said to you, just don't listen to him. You have friends like us you can count on (:

[Drajiel]

He did have a point though regarding the whole 'throwing your emotional state out of whack based on a person you just met' thing though.

Regardless, a friend's intention may not always be the best one Benji.  Just because someone has support, doesn't mean it's the right support.

[Kale the dragon]

im fine naw, it's just the uncertainty and waiting for the next meet up that has me a little worried.

[Kasuke]

You'll do fine ^-^

Trust me. Just be yourself. You don't want someone loving you for someone who you ain't :/

[Kale the dragon]

You'll do fine ^-^

Trust me. Just be yourself. You don't want someone loving you for someone who you ain't :/

that's just it.  nothing has been set up.  he read some of my earlier posts on this thread and i think he feels a little guilty.  as well he says he is feeling a mix of emotions.  obviously this has been a rather interesting experience for both of us.  i just hope it works out.