Capital Furs

WARNING! this is just a large fucking rant about everything im PISSED about...

So, i'm barely home 2 weeks, and my family is already driving me insane. They NEED to know where I am at all times, who I'm with, and when I'll be back. I have no freedom. Everything is 20 questions. She demands I name names, but i just dont wanna.

Now, my mom thinks im on drugs. Why? She claims my attitude has changed since I've been back in Ottawa. You wanna know what the difference is, I'm not used to having to deal with them. The irritate me, im ina  constant state of frustration when Im home.

ALSO, I've been planning to move out at the end of August... for MONTHS now... But now, I cant. Why? Cuz my mom needs me to work and bail her out of her financial issues. Yup! That's What She Said! She needs me to work to give her money.
So, now I might not be able to. Then she blames it on me that, if I move out, she and my Dad will be on the street... and it will be all my fault!

OH... OH OH OH! Another thing. I had roughly $2000 saved up... BUT GUESS WHAT! Its Gone! Yup... FUCKING PARENTS!

OH, something else! My SISTER is aloud to move out. And why is she moving out? Cause IM moving out. She'd always had to be better than me. She's not even ready. She cant cook, clean, and she hardly makes any money. She has 2 credit cards maxed out, i have one but NEVER use it. So, I think IM more qualified to move out.

Now, Im purposely going out whenever I can to get away from the stress...

I very much doubt your moving out will put your parents on the street. So if thats the case just continue with your plans and do so anyway. If your 18 or older there is litterally nothing they can do about it anyway, and if your younger.. well that may be a little iffy depending on your age.

Yep:  I'd say move out.  Unless they did something like pay for your college or something I can see no reason why you'd have to pay them anything.

That, or just spend 90% of your time visiting friends...

I feel ya on the 'where're you going and with who!?" thing. Though my parents gave up on it years ago.

I usually just come up with some ridiculous answer and just use that... they can't exactly STOP you from going out, and if they get seriously pissed off that you aren't telling them every detail of your life, there's deeper issues there.

"Where're you going!?"
"Ritual goat sacrifice"
"No, really. Where are you going?"
"Told you, goat sacrifice. Back later! *leave*."

Yeah... since your parents aren't our family, I think you're going to get a lot of "Leave that place".

This is fucked up.  Are they on drugs?

Pooshie wrote:This is fucked up.  Are they on drugs?

no... they're just... difficult. the whole money issue is BAD... we're in a pickle, and I completely understand why they "borrowed" my money, but it's the fact that they took it without telling me till i actually needed it... my plan was to use it to find my own place

anyways!

Widontknow wrote:That, or just spend 90% of your time visiting friends...

MOST DEFINITELY!!!

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